Coming-of-age
This is a genre that has increasingly captivated my interest over time, it's not hard to understand why. Coming-of-age films depict a deeply formative yet complicated period of life, one that feels especially relevant to my life right now. But my fondness for this genre goes beyond relatability. I find it absolutely fascinating how this seemingly simple narrative framework can be transformed by personal themes, creative themes, and stylistic choices that often reflect the creator’s own lived experiences. This genre of stories has the potential to be a reflection of the person telling the story and offer a meaningful look into someone’s life at an important time. Truly, the coming-of-age genre is one of my favorites at the moment, and though that may change as I myself grow older, these kinds of movies currently hold a distinct appeal for me. For that reason, I was very eager to start doing research on it, even if I don’t intend to replicate it in my own film opening.
The coming-of-age story is one of the most iconic types of narrative in the media, resulting in some beloved pieces. A staple of film, TV, and literature, these stories are popular because of their portrayal of the transition from childhood to adulthood, an experience that most everyone can relate to which gives the genre universal appeal embedded into its core. Initially appearing in the early 20th century, coming-of-age films were typically adapted from books. Teen dramas became widely popular in the 1980s because of films from director John Hughes, whose movies were critical and commercial hits. Today, coming-of-age films feature more diverse characters and development.
Coming-of-age movies often center around a young protagonist, and chronicle their personal growth as they face significant life challenges and changes that are synonymous with growing up physically and emotionally. This type of story is one that is very realistic and relatable to the average human experience. Everyone can understand the feeling of facing new adult situations at a young age. These stories typically follow adolescents or younger characters as they struggle to confront the complexities of adult life, often through trauma or major life changes. Transitional periods are a common focal point for coming-of-age films as well as the awkwardness and uncertainty of youth. The process of growing up introduces huge, usually unexpected and difficult aspects to our lives, but it looks very different for many people depending on their circumstances and backgrounds. And that is what makes these kinds of stories so compelling to most people. They resonate deeply both with young audiences seeking relatability and adults reflecting on their own journeys.
Common themes found in coming-of-age include the loss of innocence, self-discovery, or the struggle to adapt to fit into society, with a heavy focus on a central character arc. The protagonist typically progresses into the next phase(s) of their life and grapples with a certain major conflict or realization for the first time. The genre often showcases big shifts or milestones. One of the biggest themes that links together all coming-of-age films and helps to define the genre is the theme of self-discovery and finding oneself. Even if the central story of the film is about something else entirely, this is the essence of every coming-of-age film. The protagonist, by way of the trademark narrative, inevitably has a revelation about themselves.
Romance and drama are another very common aspect of the coming-of-age genre, introducing themes of first love and heartbreak. Though not all media that fall into this category will feature romance, most do to some degree. Romantic relationships between adolescent characters are often funny, complicated, passionate, and intense. Coming-of-age films always implement dramatic themes into the story, and because feelings of attraction are such a strong yet new and challenging part of growing up, elements from the Romance genre are often integrated into the narrative.
A light-hearted coming-of-age film often focuses on the high-energy moments associated with teenagers and young adults, incorporating comedic elements into the film. Comedy is a genre that is commonly blended with coming-of-age.
The tone of a coming-of-age film is usually mundane and “slice of life,” capturing the nuances of everyday life and the real drama that arises from it. These stories are a naturalistic representation of real life. They often lack massive stakes and big complicated plots in favor of a real-world setting and developing character relationships, interactions, feelings, and arcs. These films present more dialogue and moments of stillness than dramatic action or events, and tend to have slower and steadier pacing both in the script and the editing.
The common themes and tone of coming-of-age films lend themselves well to highly personal stories. For this reason, many coming-of-age films take on an autobiographical or semi-autobiographical style, often going off the writer/director’s own personal life and experiences as the basis for the protagonist’s story.
Coming-of-age films tend to take place in familiar or relatable settings, with one of the most used settings being school. These films sometimes involve the excitement and/or struggles attributed with student life. Truly, high school is the most focused-on period of life that coming-of-age films like to explore. Another common setting for coming-of-age films is a character’s home, often set in a single city or town.
There are a lot of visual motifs in coming-of-age films to represent the protagonist’s internal conflict visually rather than through spoken lines. This can be done through props or set design, and objects that are significant to the character or plot.
The soundtrack of a coming-of-age film often includes existing pop music. Pop songs are designed to have memorable catchy melodies and be instantly recognizable. This is done to evoke a reaction from the audience who are likely familiar with a well-known song, as well as set the tone for a scene. Popular songs can also be used to reinforce the time period in which the film takes place. For example, a song that was released in the 80s might play in a scene that takes place in the 1980s. This can give a sense of nostalgia to older audience members.
Coming-of-age films will typically cast younger actors to portray the main characters, in order to better capture the experience of growing up into an adult, but also relate and appeal to adolescent audiences who are more likely to see themselves represented by the face of a real teenager or young adult.
In many coming-of-age movies, the narrative will use an adult character who plays the role of a parental figure, mentor, or guardian in the protagonist’s life. They facilitate the protagonist’s journey of self-discovery by providing guidance or support. Alternatively, adult characters are opposing forces to the protagonist, deterring them from their goals and acting as an obstacle. They may be overly strict authority figures, playing into how people at a very young age might perceive adults.
These types of films often like to provide some social commentary, with mental health being a very common topic in the coming-of-age genre. Other heavy topics that may be addressed in a coming-of-age film are drug and alcohol use, bullying, or sexual themes.
Coming-of-age movies typically have a very wide audience because, despite what age range a person is in, everyone has experienced the transition from child to adult and knows what it’s like. Because of this, coming-of-age films are in that perfect area of relatability. These movies seamlessly connect with viewers. Whether you’re twenty or eighty years old, everyone enjoys a good coming-of-age film. Young adults and teens, are invested in these types of films because they resonate with them and reflect what they are currently going through. This age group is also usually the primary target audience for these films. Coming-of-age films give them a sense of understanding. Meanwhile, adults get a feeling of nostalgia, and these films take them back to a time when the troubles of growing up seemed so much bigger and when they experienced things for the first time.
These films have to strike a difficult balance when it comes to marketing as to reach as large an audience as possible. Usually in trailers and promotional material, moments that are relatable to everyday life or teenage life specifically are shown the most. Along with displaying the emotion and heart of the movie, as coming-of-age films are typically more focused on that rather than action or high stakes. They often use social media as the main form of marketing, which many younger people and most people in general use nowadays. Almost all films in this genre feature licensed music, typically pop songs, in the movie and in the soundtrack (called “needle drops!”), relating to audiences who are familiar with or fans of a popular song. Another way coming-of-age films build an impactful image and aesthetic for themselves is by having a color palette that is prevalent in the movie and in the marketing.
Examples:
Boyhood (2014)
Boyhood is a perfect example of a coming-of-age film. The movie centers around a young boy named Mason, his family, and his experience growing up, and the entire film follows the character’s life from early childhood to the end of the movie, when he goes off to college. The transition from a kid to an adult is all there. It details the family’s ups and downs, changing dynamics, and complexities over the course of many years. The movie is famous for taking twelve years to film, providing a natural and exceptionally realistic portrayal of people evolving, growing, and changing with time. Though it is over three hours long, watching this movie is a testament to how quickly childhood goes by as it documents a boy’s growth into a man in just three hours.
Moonlight (2016)
Moonlight is a movie that follows the very difficult life of the protagonist, who goes by different names with each stage of his life (which makes Moonlight very unique in that regard). It tells the story of a young African American man’s discovery of his sexuality in a world where he feels very alone and helpless. He struggles to navigate his identity and relationships, but befriends a drug dealer who helps to guide his journey to adulthood, acting as a mentor or a guardian for the protagonist. The film deals with intense subjects such as drug use, bullying, homophobia, and growing up in poverty.
Coming-of-age films serve as authentic voices for the adolescent experience. While many feature whimsical narratives and light-hearted treatments, the genre spans a wide emotional range, from comedic to dramatic. Their universal appeal makes them successful with diverse audiences, which explains their enduring popularity with studios and directors.
Sources for research:
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